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Clean the Front Room First!

I woke up this morning and looked around...it was very apparent that cleaning my house was a priority...a must. I started where I always start...the living room. It is the first room you see when you enter my house ( if you have not entered my house....PLEASE COME GOOD FRIEND...small diversion). Well, I worked diligently on that room and then moved to my kitchen...it is off the living room and also a hub of activity. I worked to declutter and shine so that both rooms would appear clean and tidy. I ensured that my main bathroom is clean enough for company...then I looked around...took a deep breath...closed all the doors to the bedrooms and said to myself...enough Lori...the rooms everybody can see are clean. Almost immediately, the beautiful teaching Spirit of God reminded me...how many times do I spiritually do what I just physically did? I am so faithful to clean up the parts people can see...whatever you do Lori...make the outside of your life look holy...talk righteous...speak about holiness...serve hard...clean up the outside well...then I close the doors to the inside...the hidden sins I never share..the broken dreams I still cry over...my massive mistakes in parenting and marriage...just close the door Lori..as long as you look good on the outside. Jesus broke my heart today...the truth in the Bible in 1 Samuel 16 is that God could not care less about appearance...he is all about the heart. He is all about the real, genuine part of us that we will do anything to hide. I want my house to look good but I don't want to commit to the hard work of deep cleaning...of a full, diligent cleaning...so I just hide what I can..the worst of my mess...oh God I beg you don't let this be so of my heart...search me oh GOD...know my heart today..see me and change me...deep clean me oh God I pray...I am thankful for his precious sanctifying Spirit...his precious word. So...dear friends will you deep clean today or just touch the surface? Dig deep...the reward is eternal.
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Patriotism or Idolatry?

Last week, two momentous occasions passed.

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Small Group Accountability

Pastor Keith has been teaching on small groups, currently known as care groups at CBC, for the past several Sundays. I am so excited because if he is teaching correctly and according to the Bible, and he is....then I have been a part of a Biblical small group for over two years. Bonnie, Ellen, and I have been meeting on Wednesdays to discuss our sin, confess our sin, read the Bible to confront sin and pray for freedom and grace for one another . We have much to learn still...that is becoming clear on Sunday nights but praise God for his beginning. I am so sinful and lost and such a good deceiver. I deceive myself and others about my sin...we all do....our enemy is the greatest deceiver of all. Pride and fear kept me enslaved to quietness over my sin for so long. And in that quietness, I struggled alone and broken. This group of three women, women who are broken vessels....women who deceive and sin...women who struggle daily...this group has changed my life. It has set me free to fight the battle against sin openly with assurrance that I'm not alone. It has given me courage to speak up...courage to live openly without my covering of fig leaves. It has brought hope to my marriage....hope to my children who are transparent now and will not live in isolation for years....hope to my relationships with other women...a living, breathing hope that cannot be taken from me. Sin has no dominion over me....when I speak it out loud, chains are broken. How could we not yearn for that. Our facebooks...our twitters...our speech are full of our right to be free...and yet when God clearly sets before us an avenue of freedom we do not pursue it....we do not run after it demanding to be a part of this blessed freedom. Small groups matter...small groups in a Biblical way are life changing....freedom giving...hope filling instruments of sanctification. Praise God for my two precious sisters...they have heard me and seen me at my worst and loved me without condition. I am thankful beyond words for God's great grace to me.

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Back to School - What are Your Kids Learning?

"A student is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher" (Jesus, as recorded in Luke 6:40).

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Where Church Autonomy Ends

I am the pastor of a Southern Baptist Church. Baptists throughout their history have distinctly held to a belief in church autonomy.

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Am I the Source of His Discontent?

Sunday morning Pastor Keith preached a message that cut my heart in so many ways. He preached about
obstacles to contentment or peaceful satisfaction in Christ. One of those obstacles was a love of money
which is many times lived out in the form of workaholic lives.

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Sweeter Than Honey

"He said to me, 'Son of man, feed your stomach and fill your inward parts with this scroll which I am giving you.' Then I ate it, and it was sweet as honey in my mouth" (Ezekiel 3:3).

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For Everything a Season

*Let me introduce Lori Beard. I have invited her to be a guest blogger on this site from time to time. Lori serves the church I pastor as a Biblical Counselor and Women's Ministry Leader. I know God will bless and challenge you through her blog entries. So, enjoy this first "entry" from my Sister in Christ.

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The Harvest

The Lord's Bounty to the McWhorter Family
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Top 10 Issues Facing Today's Family (Part 2)

This is a continuation of the previous post. Let's briefly look at the final 5 big issues facing families today per the Lifeway Research article http://www.lifeway.com/article/164120.

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